Long before Elaine was ordering her big salad at Monk’s and Melissa Clark was teaching the world to toss a salad with your hands or the New York Times featured the Lucali Salad, every Sunday my mother-in-law, Linda, was making a big salad.
Sunday dinner was mandatory at the Laganella household. And my mother-in-law, Linda, was our Nonna. I read this quote about an Italian grandmother which explains Linda completely – “The Nonna is the true head of the Italian family. She’s old and wise, so much so that your own father’s afraid of her.“
Linda would make the typical Sunday Gravy dinner – meatballs, sausage, pasta, and good crusty Italian bread. After we finished filling our tummies to complete capacity, out would come not just a big salad but a HUGE salad. Somehow we all found room for this refreshing and delicious salad. Everyone would pile the salad on our just used pasta plate because that little bit of meatball and gravy on a fork with the greens was a little bit of heaven.
Linda’s salad was truly a combination of a lot of flavors. She would start with iceberg and romaine. There were always cut-up tomatoes, red onion, cucumbers, black olives, garbanzo beans, bell pepper, and any other vegetable she had in the refrigerator. She always added freshly grated Locatelli cheese right before mixing the salad. It was usually quite a game in the kitchen when she was grating the cheese because her sons were always trying to nip off a piece of the cheese and she was always swatting them away. When the salad arrived at the table the youngest grandchildren always seemed to somehow make finger puppets out of the black olives much to the horror of my father-in-law who firmly believed you should not play with your food.
I am just going to include the recipe for the salad dressing because I am sure you get the idea for the salad from my description.
- ½ cup olive oil
- ¼ + ⅛ cup red wine vinegar
- ¼ teaspoon sea salt
- 1 teaspoon oregano
- pinch of black pepper
- 1 teaspoon of garlic powder
I hope you all have enjoyed meeting Linda and will use the month of May to make cherished memories.
18 responses to “THE BIG SALAD – long before there was Elaine, there was Linda’s big salad”
I love this! The description of a Nonna is perfect and German can be substituted for Italian and it works for our family. My dad wasn’t afraid of anything, except his mother! I also like that the salad was served after the hot meal. I much prefer to eat my salad after and always save some for the end of the meal. I get annoyed at restuarants when they want to take my bowl away when they serve the main course. I love big salads and will try this dressing. Thanks!
Thanks Darlene. I always think of the line from My Big Fat Greek Wedding – The man may be the head of the household. But the woman is the neck, and she can turn the head whichever way she pleases.”
― Nia Vardalos
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That is perfect!
Salad is great if made properly! That looks fabulous.
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Thank you so much for the reblog.
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I love your stories Bernadette! I wouldn’t even need the meal if I had this big salad, sounds wonderful!
Thanks Jen, sending the compliment right back at ya.
Fun post! We love salad — and in fact, sometimes skip the meal and just feast on salad. 🙂
I often get salad as mu main course when I go out to eat. I love appetizers and soups and a delicious salad for dinner leaves room for a forkful of dessert.
Long live the big salad! I loved reading this, and your story about Linda. In that picture, I could absolutely hear her telling Vince exactly how it’s gonna be. Hahaha
That is one of our favorite pictures because it so shows her personality. When she died Dom’s neighbor said to him that God could take a rest because Linda was up there straightening everyone out.
As was the way in our family when I was young, we never had platters of food in our house, mum insisted on serving everything on our plates in the kitchen in an effort to make sure we all got a fair share.
Until dessert that is, then it was a free-for-all and sharpen your elbows!
The sharpen your elbows happened when I was raising my three sons also. Thanks for the laugh.
I love this recipe, this post, and your closing line. I make lots of big salads. I will definitely give Linda’s salad dressing a try!
Definitely nonna is the head of any Italian family 🥰 And their food is unforgettable 😋
What a wonderful looking salad Bernadette!